I have a scar on the right side of my face, very close to my eye. It’s one of those scars that you might not quickly notice if you’re not intently looking, but it’s there, courtesy of one of my brothers. As the tale goes, while we were playing outside the house, he began throwing things around. Unfortunately, one of the things he threw landed on the wrong target leaving behind a trail of blood, a good number of stitches and an unflattering nickname at school.
Not many people ask how I got the scar these days. There was a time when that question was asked by almost every person I spoke to, and I would narrate the story over and over again. It was the scar that showed I have a brother. His name would always be mentioned anytime I told the story.
Every scar tells a story.
From now on, donโt let anyone trouble me with these things. For I bear on my body the scars that show I belong to Jesus.
Galatians 6:17 (NLT)
When I read that verse sometime within this week, I thought long and hard about the scar on my face and what it represents. Then I thought about the scars that show we belong to Jesus.
Scars of rejection.
Scars of broken relationships.
Scars of mockery.
Scars of dying to ourselves, daily.
There are other scars in our lives that tell the stories of where we have been and the paths we have trod. The scars that hold our deepest secrets and those that expose our weaknesses.
Scars of abuse.
Scars of addiction.
Scars of failure.
Scars of missed opportunities.
But every scar is a life-lesson waiting to be taught. Every scar is a medal of survival hanging amongst others. Every scar is a page or two in the memoirs of the best version of you. Every scarย is yours, unique to you, your something special that only YOU have got.
Jesus never hid his scars. He showed them to his disciples as proof that he was the one who had died, and proof that he was alive; proof that His life will be our life too. Because of his scars, we have eternal hope.
So don’t hide your scars because the story might not be pleasant. Don’t hide your scars because you think it’ll expose your shame. Don’t hide your scars because you want to be accepted. Don’t hide your scars because you just want to blend in.
Celebrate your scars because they didn’t stay as open wounds. Let your scars tell their stories, and one day your world would be better for it.
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I have a scar on my belly. It’s a very ugly scar. Yes, the world may not see it, but I never fail to give it a rub every once in a while and smile . . . as I look at the ones who came through my pain to bring me so much joy.
I enjoyed this so much!! Thank you for sharing!!!
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You’re welcome, Diane. Thanks for stopping by. Hope you’re having an amazing Thanksgiving.
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Amen! Thank you for sharing this!
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You’re welcome, John.
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Oh, this is awesome!!!!!
What a wonderful reminder for us to proudly allow others to see our scars.
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Thank you, Stu. This is the reason we do what we do, with the grace that the Lord bestows.
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Yes, it is sis! It gives others Hope!
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Yes.
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Good morning, Tosin, so many stories, so many scars. Thank you for sharing and giving Jesus all the glory. By His wounds, we are healed.
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Good morning dear Julie. I’m glad I could share this one. There are still so many stories to share. Thank you. And yes, that’s another amazing story of Jesus’s scars: the gift of healing.
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Wonderful and powerful post! I have missed your writing, Alethea!
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Thanks a lot. You know I missed you too and the laughs you always give me ๐
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That’s a tall order to live up to, but Lord willing, I will be back to the regular weekly humor posts on Fridays! ๐
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I trust you ๐๐๐
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Finally, I got to know why the scar on your face. I love how your story relates to your message; it’s encouraging. Nice piece.
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Thanks Uche. I didn’t know you were curious about the scar ๐
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Amen sister! Great to meet you! God bless you!
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God bless you too, Ryan. God bless His WordPress community ๐ค
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A very encouraging reminder especially for times it gets tough. Thanks Tos.
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Thanks babe.
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Tosin, I have nominated you for the Random Acts of Kindness Award.
Below is the link to your nomination! Thank you for your kindnesses to me. God loves you!
https://gaillovesgod.blog/2018/11/25/random-act-of-kindness-award-11-17-18/
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Oh wow. And the cycle of love continues ๐๐๐๐
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Amen, Sister! As much as the Lord will allow! โค
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Hi, Tosin! I nominated you for the Random Act of Kindness Award. You can read about it on my latest blog at http://vicklea.com.
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Thank you, Vickie. This will be another opportunity to think of the many ways God has reached out to me through others. I’m grateful you always think of me. ๐
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I know that scar on your face!! I love this post, it has given me reassurance even with my scars. Thanks.
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Thanks sis, and I thank God He spoke to you through this. Let your scars shine.
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A medal of survival – I’d never thought of it that way before! This is great! I like the way you wrote this!
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Yes, our scars are medals that show we are still alive in spite of our wounds. God bless you ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
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Thank you, and you as well! ๐
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Amen!
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You are speaking to me right now! I thank God I have come across your blog. I was in the midst of so much confusion whether to own up my testimony in my blog or whether to introduce a third party because of my scars and my cultural background. But I decided to just be me. When you said that we should not hide our scars because of the storms, that has given me more boldness. May God bless you!
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Wow. That’s an amazing testimony. Thank you for letting me know. You have also encouraged me by speaking up too. It’s tough to give our testimonies wings to fly especially when we have a cultural context that looks down on scars, but we must remember that as children of God, our culture is no longer of this world. If Jesus boldly showed his scars to his disciples, we must never be ashamed of ours, even when they must have come by the most shameful circumstances…like the Cross of Christ.
I’ll love to hear more from you, and yes, Jesus is AMAZING!
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Wow! Here is the beginning to a new beautiful friendship! Blessings!
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Thank God for His many blessings ๐
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Tosin, Thank you for this. Paul was never ashamed of his scars, either. He mentioned them often, even the self-inflicted ones. He always was giving testimony of God’s saving grace in his own life, and of his own trials and tribulations, and even of the abuses and persecutions which he regularly faced. So, we, too, share our stories, because they are our testimonies of what God did in our own lives and how he can heal all wounds no matter how huge they are.
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‘No matter how huge they are’ . . . That got me. He is able, more than able ๐
Thanks for this insight, Sue.
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Oh, you might be interested to read a blog post the Lord gave me awhile ago on the subject of why we share our stories. https://walkingwounded.blog/2018/01/18/book-chapter-nine/
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Oh. I’ll check it out. Thanks for sharing
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Very clear message. It gives more meaning to thoughts I have also had. Thank you.
I didn’t know you had another blog besides Run With It.
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Thank you! Glory to God!
Last January the Lord Jesus led me to write the story of my life in the form of a book. My husband had restarted a blog a few months prior to this where he was openly sharing about his own life and his sinful addictions, apparently as a means of trying to work through some things in his own life towards recovery.
So, since he was now coming out in the open about this, the Lord led me to write my part of that story, with my husband’s approval. And, my husband wrote the Forward to the book.
So, I prayed about where I should share this book, and the Lord led me to begin another blog just for that purpose. Since then other blog posts have been added if they are specifically related to that subject. But, I don’t write on there often.
But, the book is where I share my scars and what the Lord did in my life to heal those wounds and how the Lord was using what I went through to minister his love and grace to others.
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Amazing. And this has given me clarity on some things I’ve been thinking about. There are some things I’m not ashamed to share about myself, but I didn’t think it would be right to share them without my husband’s approval, because revealing these things will also have it’s effects on him. You path has shed some light I needed. Thank God for this. I really appreciate you sharing this with me.
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Glory to God! You are so welcome!
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Proudly showing the scar on my nose courtesy of my sister ๐, and that scar on the belly ๐mine is more like tiger stripes. Very encouraging story, thank you for sharing Tos.
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๐๐๐๐๐ tiger stripes ๐๐๐๐๐
When we share our experiences with the teens every Sunday, we celebrate our scars. I’m glad to be working with you, sis.
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This is beautiful. I’m going to share it with my coaching group on Facebook. Thanks for pointing me to this. Blessings.
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It’s my pleasure. Glad you find it useful to share, and I hope it blesses those you share it with. God bless you, John.
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